Fetish party is a special entertaining event held by
fetish communities that caters for adults interested in the related
topic.
A fetish party can take place in all sorts of settings, ranging from fetish clubs to
private apartments or even open air. Accordingly, the number of people
present at a fetish party varies greatly, too.
Unlike ordinary parties, a fetish party is not usually advertised in an
open way. Rather, people interested in fetish would find information on
the fetish party theme, the schedule, tips about music and performances
as well as requirements concerning clothes, etc. from special
websites. Some of the famous parties familiar to the society are the
Vice, Obscene or Wasteland. As can be seen, the names of such
establishments speak for themselves and imply some kinky activities
that take place at a typical fetish party.
Though it is possible and often likely to see some sexual interaction
going on between party visitors, no one is forced to participate
without free will. However, the atmosphere of a fetish party, presence
of rooms specially meant for the kind of play and equipped with all
kinds of devices for bondage/discipline,
submission/domination and sadomasochistic
practices and role-play dispose to engaging in intimate relationship.
It is also possible to simply watch other people perform sex acts
(which happens not infrequently at a fetish party) or join them if you
are invited to do so.
On the whole, during a fetish party following the safety rules and the
general etiquette requirements is very important to provide for
pleasurable experiences and comfortable rest of every guest. Dressing
in a provocative manner does not oblige one to behave in a promiscuous
way but only gives a freedom of choice, so it is absolutely necessary
to respect personal privacy of the people around. For example, touching
or otherwise harassing visitors to a fetish party is prohibited if the
above is not mutually consensual.
A fetish party usually has some theme and the corresponding dress-code.
Jeans wear, sports wear and denim of all colors are not recommended for
the occasion, and may even be the grounds for the door-patrol not to
let you in. Materials usually welcomed, on the other hand, include leather, rubber
and PVC, fishnet, latex
and velvet. At times, a fetish party would invite its visitors to be
completely naked with only body or skin art on. Doubts as to the
'rightness' of clothing can be cleared up on visiting some Internet
sites dealing with the topic, and new ideas can always be drawn from fetish movies.
Some of the most popular pieces to be seen at a fetish party are
uniforms (e.g. Military men, schoolgirls,
maids, medical staff,
etc.), fur
garment, lingerie and the like, while the costumes encompass images of
cartoon and TV characters, national outfit, historical and theatrical
dresses, Gothic, formal- and fantasy-style outfit, to name just a few.
When men wear women's clothing and vice versa, a fetish party is called
a drag.
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